No One is 'Normal'

Thank You for Being Out-Standing

I came across this beautiful animated short. It was created by The Gate for Childline in the UK. The song is “Creep” by Radiohead. I’ve shared this piece widely, and I wanted to share it with you.

Despite my age, I feel like the young people portrayed in this piece sometimes. Outside of myself, unable to fully show up. On the days when I feel courageous or blurt my version of truth into the world, I feel seen. I suppose most often, I do that here. It’s still a small group, and it feels safe to do so — thank you.

No one is ‘normal’. Those trying to assert themselves as ‘normal’ are rarely convincing, so busy concealing their true selves.

I used to drink to fit in, to hide behind the bravado that alcohol gave me. I’m so glad to be free of that crutch. I try to embrace my unique qualities and accept that I’m not to everyone’s taste. That’s okay — in fact, that’s a relief.

Still a chameleon, I tend toward fitting in before standing out. I apologize (beyond the Canadian standard) and ruminate on interactions unnecessarily. I work on these limitations to further free myself.

I delight in my creative, empathic, ‘weird’ and ‘out-standing’ friends and communities.

Thank you for embracing your selves and showing me the way.